Life of Sedat Gürbüz
“When Sedat was born, the sun came out,” says his mother Emis Gürbüz. His parents were overjoyed on the day of his birth on 16 May 1990. His grandmother was bursting with pride over her first grandchild. At the age of one and a half, Sedat was already speaking in full sentences and enchanted everyone around him with his intelligence and charm. His mother read him both German and Turkish fairy tales. Sedat, usually full of energy, could sit still for hours for these stories.
His mum said: “At nursery school, everyone called him Sidat at first. He took to it for the first month. When I called him Sedat at home, he said to me: ‘Mum, my name isn’t Sedat. My name is Siiiiiidat.’”
Sedat played football for FC Dietzenbach until he was 18. He often went to Eintracht Frankfurt matches, he liked the atmosphere in the football stadium.
From the day he was born, Sedat loved the sun and the warmth. As soon as the temperature allowed, he would leave the house in a T-shirt and shorts, but not without choosing his outfit carefully.
He realised early on that he wanted to start his own business one day. In 2017, he became a partner in the Midnight shisha bar and made his dream come true. Midnight became his second home. Sedat was almost always there, thanks to him there was always a familiar, peaceful atmosphere. Everyone was welcome here, whether they were in a good mood or looking for a distraction from the stress of everyday life. If a guest couldn’t pay, Sedat would still serve them a drink. Trust was important to him. Sedat always looked after his employees. Once, an employee asked him for tips for a job interview with a company. Sedat was happy to help; after all, the employee wanted to make more of himself and get ahead. He himself had always been grateful to all his supporters.
One of them was always his grandmother. He called her every day to see how she was doing and whether she needed anything. Sedat was a popular person. When he entered the room, the sun would rise. Sedat was born in Langen, but grew up with his parents and brother in Dietzenbach. Sedat’s mother has lived in Dietzenbach for 50 years and his father for more than 30 years. Sedat liked the colours white and blue. He would have turned 30 on 16 May 2020. His family cut a blue cake on this day. It was the first birthday without Sedat, everyone was there, only he was missing.
Sedat was unable to fulfil his heart’s desire to start his own family and have children, even though he loved children so much. He was a kind-hearted person. He was held in high esteem by everyone. He was the one who loved people – regardless of their origin, faith or skin colour. He loved life in all its ups and downs. He was always ready to help, whether old or young. If the murderer had known Sedat, he could never have murdered my child: ‘Wherever he went, he shone like the sun.’”
Written by Emiş Gürbüz, Sedat’s mother